Should i resign myself to a life of living alone, if so whats the best way to cope?

Okay, so I'm 22 & I feel just the same as you sometimes. There are ways to overcome this. I'm not sure about the website, it seems like a negative way to look at a situation with a solution. You don't have to suffer from poor social skills. You can learn them. There are plenty of books on shyness and social skills. See a therapist. Research them online. I felt like I was dull / boring with no personality to attract men, had no real clue about them or when they were interested in me. You have to realize that a lot of those things you described are pointing to low self esteem. You have to believe in who you are. Confidence in dating and in life come with building up who you are and what you like. Women will be attracted to you when you are interested in yourself! Workout, go to any kind of church, go to the library, go to NA - AA meetings, community college, join a club in college. College is a GREAT place to meet women. GO OUT and do things you like and women will be all around you doing the same things. You could even go on line to meet women / practice dating. good luck!